Ideals and Team

Ferhat Ünlükal
3 min readOct 25, 2020

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While sipping my Sunday coffee this morning, I was reading Ertuğrul Özkök’s article with pleasure.

It was not the biggest dream of wealth, but the marriage and marriage contract of two people with ideals. The heroes of the event were Ertuğrul and his wife Tansu.

And he was adding the words of Hande Ataizin that will not be forgotten, “The important thing is not to go to Paris, but with whom you went to Paris.”

Since Paris is a distant place and destination, I understood it as a vision in my mind.

My conclusion was that with whom you went to Vizyon is important. It bent and twisted a little, but manage that much.

Love, subsequent marriage stories and contracts begin with a long journey together.

Some go to the end, others end in divorce.

But it still matters who you go to where you go.

Here with whom you go, is your team, your companions.

It is such a contract in marriage. that Turkey’s first marriage contract, Ertugrul Ozkok single agent, “You brought me my coffee in the morning throughout our lives. I will give you whatever I earn in my life ”.

Yes, we also sign such contracts, we know that walking the road, being able to walk with that team is the goal.

They are no longer wealth, but our ideals. We choose to earn money in exchange for salaries.

But if the subject gets misunderstood, we’ll drink coffee for our earnings. The world turns over. Vision and Ideal are no longer uniting, it is the relationships of interest between us.

While the journey started with sacrifice, loving and love, your relationships continue on the basis of profit.

What happened to your values. Instead of knowing its value, you know the price of life.

When I think about this, a well-known common discourse comes to my mind.

You can buy a house, but you cannot buy a warm home …

You can buy a bed, but you can’t buy sleep …

You can buy a watch, but you cannot buy the time that passes.

You can buy books, but you cannot buy wisdom…

You can buy the acquaintance, but you cannot buy the friendship …

You can buy office, but you cannot buy respect …

You can buy a hospital, but you cannot buy health…

You can buy school, but you cannot buy literary…

You can buy your life, but you cannot buy your soul …

You can buy vanity, But you can’t buy beauty …

You can buy vacation, but you can’t buy peace…

You can buy insurance, but not trust…

You can buy food, But you cannot buy the appetite …

You can buy water, but you cannot buy the sea …

You can buy sex, But you can’t buy love…

You can’t, you can’t! How will you get it? No jewelry or currency is used in matters related to the heart. It has no price, only sublime value.

If people have values, ideals, you cannot buy them either.

As Rumi said, “We understood the poverty and why is loving a scarce opinion? Or are hearts poor! Who cut the price for Love? “

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Ferhat Ünlükal
Ferhat Ünlükal

Written by Ferhat Ünlükal

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